Coach's decision to take the job in Austin has a huge impact on both Julie and his wife. Since she's still underage, the degree to which Julie's wishes should determine the fate of the family is arguable. But as soon as Tami herself started expressing doubts and regret about moving to Austin, the situation escalated to a whole new level. Because there are three people in the family, and keeping them together geographically may cause splits at an emotional level, which is what we're already seeing. Coach made a decision without Tami, against her express wishes. He did so because he was put on the spot. Tami puts a proposal to Coach in a consultative fashion, deliberately asks him not to make an instant decision, and he dismisses it. Imo, he owes her more respect than that, so I sympathise with her drawing a line herself, making a decision without him: that she won't leave Austin.
Many things played into her reaching this place, but without a doubt one of them was what happened with Tyra. It's one of life's little ironies that terrible events can have positive consequences, and I thought it was wonderful that despite how uncomfortable it made her feel temporarily, it quickly made Tyra more appreciative of Tami. They've grown close through this, which will make Tami's encouragement of Tyra's studies all the more likely to succeed. Tami is a mother figure to the kids of this town in the way that Coach is a father figure. Abandonning them is going to be hard for both of them, even if Coach hasn't faced that yet.
I love Tyra so much! She is both so vulnerable and so strong, and she's both a bitch and a warm-hearted girl. All these qualities were in evidence in this episode. While her immediate reaction was to deny/ignore what happened to her, she was also able to acknowledge that it probably was a good thing that she ended up telling the police. It made her feel shit (and I thought the photo-session showed succinctly how/why assault victims feel objectified as victims--it's necessary but highly unpleasant when you're already feeling bruised and vulnerable and are struggling to regain your sense of self), but the fact that she responded to Tami and apologised to Landry later shows she is able to see past those immediate feelings, which is a very good sign for her emotional and mental health.
I found the scene between Landry and Matt very moving. Landry was so vulnerable and frightened and he lashes out (mirroring Tyra's later lash-out at him) and attacks Matt. Matt has no idea what it's really all about. Yes, he jokes about Landry and Tyra, but he's not really bad-hearted about it--and he has no way of knowing the severity of what has just happened. Matt says he must tell someone because Matt's that kind of guy (and I love that he is), but for Landry this has serious consequences. He's breaking his word and he risks being reviled by the girl he likes. And it could have been much, much worse. All I can say, is thank god Tami was there, and thank god Landry had the sense to go to her, not the police straight off. Because I think Tyra's fears are partially justifiable. Without the appropriate support and counselling, reporting an assault can be a very scarring experience. And Tyra has no other support, as we heard when Landry confronted her about why she hadn't talked to anyone. But Tami provided enough emotional security to make Tyra be able to face doing so.
I'm very fond of Tim and Tyra as friends, so I was really pleased to see Tim suggest hanging out with Tyra, although I also totally think he would have gone for the comfort-sex if he could have! I love Tyra for seeing through it (yes, you are transparent, Tim!) and Landry for calling Tim's Texas-forever thing 'cute but pathetic'. Landry's speech was perfectly pitched to both hurt Tyra (she knows all this!) and to ultimately connect with her--because the type of guy he described, one who appreciates who she really is, is exactly what she would love to find but fears she never will, her looks only making that less likely because guys find it hard to see beyond that. Like Tyra herself, I haven't really paid much attention to Landry until now. He was 'Matt's amusing friend' and that's about it. But I liked the character growth in him in this episode and he suddenly feels like a far weightier character.
A lot of characters took an assertive stand in this episode, with positive consequences. I was so proud of Waverly for telling Smash what she needed so gracefully. She is obviously learning that she needs stability, but to ask for it from your partner at such a momentous time in his life is very difficult. She rightly assessed that she could ask him to respect her wishes but it would be a disaster if she demanded the same from him. But how beautiful that in drawing a line for herself, saying 'this is who I am and what I need right now, but you have to be you', it brought her closer to Smash. I'm a big believer in the idea that if one person makes a positive step towards healthy behaviour and self-assertion, others will respond in kind, and what a beautiful illustration of that: Smash bringing Waverly cake after the roast. She didn't expect him (she wasn't emotionally manipulating him in any way--that was clear), he could have gone off with the other girl (he was making a free choice of his own): omg, I LOVE them!
And go Lyla! I love that she's not taking any bullshit from anyone any more, least of all the men in her life. I have every sympathy for her walking out on her father's 'it'll be ok'/'everything will be the same' divorce chat. (Memo to parents: that sort of empty reassurance only works to lower you in the eyes of your children for they are not stupid.) And she's spot-on with Jason: he doesn't have the courage to tell her the truth. It's an interesting situation, because it means that Jason's self-image of himself as the 'wronged' party in the Tim debacle clashes with the reality here--that he too didn't have the courage to break up properly, but cheats and lies instead. I think he's struggling with what that means, and that shows in his hesitation with Susie, though he obviously likes her. Jason Street is not the 'good guy' any more.
I think he'll make an awesome Coach though. But again, we're set up for some interesting conflict, because Jason's all gung-ho and excited about getting to coach Saracen, while Saracen is pissed-off and sulky, knowing that Coach is about to leave him, taking his girlfriend with him. Pouring salt on the wounds, Jason has just stepped between Julie and Matt, not realising what a bad time it is to do so. Julie is oblivious to both Tyra's concerns and Matt's predicament and feels neglected by both... I predict some major fireworks, and I can't wait!
ETA: The deleted scenes (Tami & Tyra and Matt & Jason) are essential viewing! Thanks brandil!